| March 7, 1999 |
Vol. I, No. 45
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Our society is becoming increasingly hedonistic. Men and women are searching for ways to enjoy this life without any regard to eternity. One of the ways they have found to enjoy this life is by committing sexual immorality, such as homosexuality, fornication, and adultery. The wearing of immodest apparel, dancing, and viewing movies which portray all of the forms of sexual immorality are forms of lasciviousness which create lust in the minds of the viewer and if left unchecked will eventually bring death, James 1:14-15.
Many have found that along with the uncontrolled fulfillment of their lusts comes some unpleasant and unwanted side effects. Various diseases (the most feared of which is AIDS), unwanted pregnancies, and divorces are some of the consequences which follow the fulfilling of these desires. Man's answer to all of these diseases is to educate everyone, especially children, as to how they can commit these acts of immorality in a SAFE way. They have coined the phrase "safe sex" and promoted this all over the country as the answer to all of the problems and consequences that come from the uncontrolled fulfillment of the lusts of the flesh.
God has provided for the lawful fulfillment of the desires that exist in men and women. Heb. 13:4 states, "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for fornicators and adulterers God will judge." 1 Cor. 7:2-3 says, "But because of immoralities, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband. Let the husband fulfill his duty to his wife, and likewise also the wife to her husband." This is the only form of safe sex because it is the only form with God's approval. Any sex outside the marriage relationship is NOT SAFE BECAUSE IT IS SIN and sin will keep one out of the kingdom of heaven, Gal. 5:19-21.
Children as well as most adults need teaching from God's word on the subject of safe sex. Parents need to sit with their children and open God's word and teach them the sanctity of marriage and the need for them to wait until they are married before engaging in the sexual relationship. Instead of feeding upon God's word, most children are feeding from the trough of Hollywood via the TV set and movies which openly advocate sexual immorality of every kind.
Following God's law will end the problems that come from sexual immorality. Unwanted pregnancies, abortion, sexually transmitted diseases, divorce, and all the other ills that accompany these sins will cease if all will just simply obey God.
--Andy Alexander
To carry a grudge is like being stung to death by one bee.
In Matt. 9:14-15, "The disciples of John came to [Jesus], saying, 'Why do we and the Pharisees fast often, but Your disciples do not fast?' And Jesus said to them, 'Can the friends of the bridegroom mourn as long as the bridegroom is with them? But the days will come when the bridegroom will be taken away from them, and they will fast.'"
Note a few facts with regard to the subject of fasting, that is, refraining from the eating of common meals for a prolonged period of time, usually associated with religious activity.
1. John's disciples followed the tradition of the Pharisees in frequent fasting. Jesus gives us some insight into their practice in Luke 18:12, where He quotes the prayer of a certain Pharisee, "I fast twice in a week."
2. We note that the Lord, in our text, connected fasting with grieving: "Can the friends of the bridegroom fast as long as the bridegroom is with them? But the days will come when the bridegroom will be taken away from them, and then they will fast."
3. The only fast commanded by the Law of Moses was the one which came once a year on the Day of Atonement, the day on which every Israelite was to mourn for his sins as the high priest offered the sin-offering in the Holy of Holies of the temple. See Lev. 23:27-29 and related passages.
4. Other periods of fasting were not wrong. They were allowed, but not necessarily commanded.
5. Since Jesus connects fasting with grieving, He insists it would be improper for His disciples to practice the frequent fasting of the Pharisees while He was with them. To be with Him was a thing of joy, not of grieving.
6. Soon He would be taken away from them by His death on the cross. Then they would mourn, not by commandment, but by the natural circumstances. Thus they grieved for three days as His body lay in the tomb.
7. Then, after three days, their weeping was turned into joy by His resurrection. After remaining among them for another forty days (Acts 1:3), He ascended to heaven. Though He was no longer with them physically, He sent another Comforter, the Holy Spirit as promised in John 14:16-17, 26; 15:26-27 and 16:7. Thus, even though some Christians may occasionally fast on various occasions, such as the appointment of overseers in a local church, etc., [Acts 14:23], fasting has never been an integral part of New Testament Christianity.
--CRJ